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Pregnancy Decision-Making Support

Resources for navigating the heavy decision of continuing versus interrupting a pregnancy following a prenatal diagnosis.

WORKBOOKS

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Finding Your Way After Unexpected News in Pregnancy

A unique 25-page workbook by Kendra Schaa, crafted for families who receive unexpected prenatal ultrasound findings or genetic test results.

BOOKS

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A Time to Decide a Time to Heal: For Parents Making Difficult Decisions About Babies They Love

by Molly A. Minnick, Kathleen J. Delp, Mary C. Ciotti

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Difficult Decisions: For Families Whose Unborn Baby Has a Serious Problem

by Patricia Fertel

Continuing a Pregnancy After a
Life-Limiting Prenatal Diagnosis

Resources to help navigate the days, weeks, and months ahead following a life-limiting prenatal diagnosis.

WEBSITES

BOOKS

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A Gift of Time: Continuing Your Pregnancy When Your Baby’s Life Is Expected to Be Brief

by Amy Kuebelbeck and Deborah L. Davis

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Waiting with Gabriel: A Story of Cherishing a Baby’s Brief Life

by Amy Kuebelbeck

Pregnancy/Infant Loss

Resources for finding your way after experiencing a miscarriage, stillbirth or infant death.

BOOKS

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Navigating the Unknown: An Immediate Guide when Experiencing the Loss of Your Baby

by Amie Lands

At a Loss: Finding Your Way After Miscarriage, Stillbirth, or Infant Death

by Donna Rothert

BEREAVEMENT KIT

For Men

Resources for men who have received unexpected news during a pregnancy and traveled down many different paths, from miscarriage, to continuing a pregnancy, to pregnancy termination.

WEBSITES

For men expecting a baby with a life-limiting diagnosis:

For men who have experienced pregnancy or infant loss:

For men who have been the partner of a person who interrupted a pregnancy:

Pregnancy Termination for Medical Reason

Resources and stories from parents who have navigated the challenging path of pregnancy termination.

WEBSITES


BOOKS

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A Time to Decide a Time to Heal: For Parents Making Difficult Decisions About Babies They Love

by Molly A. Minnick, Kathleen J. Delp, Mary C. Ciotti

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Our Heartbreaking Choices: Forty-Six Women Share Their Stories of Interrupting a Much-Wanted Pregnancy

by Christie Brooks

Accessing Abortion Care

A list of organizations to help support the financial and logistical needs
in arranging pregnancy termination can be found here:

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